I Am Running Out of Words

It seems strange that in this time when I have contact with so few people that I am finding myself without words. You’d think they’d have piled up.  Maybe it’s that I’m getting used to solitude and silence and words seem more precious now, to be “kept for Sunday best.” Or maybe it’s because I […]

Gently, Swiftly, Easily

Frienily, we have some healing to do, some deep deprogramming – if not reformatting altogether – and some relearning. And it is not going to be easy, or pretty.  The dominant culture on this entire planet is designed to exclude non-white and non-male people from power. Occasionally somebody sneaks through, and thank goodness they do. […]

Fight, Flight or Freeze

Our poor autonomic nervous systems just don’t know which way to turn right now.  There’s terrible danger, but . . . most of us (at least the sensible ones) are staying home where it’s safe, so . . . what’s to be afraid of? Except, there’s this terrible danger . . . Some of us […]

Silence

I’m a fan of silence. I don’t listen to music or have any media on at all when I’m at home, even when I am knitting or doing something quiet. It helps me shut off the thinking and simply be. If I’m listening to music I’m analyzing it. I don’t listen to music in my […]

Staying Connected In Times of Social Distance

We think we’re so tough. We’re cracking jokes about how great it’s going to be once we’re quarantined, like “we’ve been preparing for this our whole lives.” Some of us introverts have some pretty high level lock-the-world-out-and-wrap-up-in-blankets skills. I can actually go for weeks without leaving the house. Mostly. Somebody has to go to the […]

Saying Goodbye, Saying Hello

Those familiar with my music will know that I have written at least as many songs about driving as I have about anything else. Possibly combined. Except weather, of course.  Cars are important to me. Not flashy cars, or expensive cars, but cars with personality, functional cars, practical cars, cars with a willingness to do […]

On Sobriety

Who’da thunk that something that started for so many of us as an act of rebellion, would come to be something so utterly conventional? No, really. Drinking is what everybody does. If you say you’re not drinking anymore, people think there’s something wrong with you. Rarely do I get a “Wow, good for you! And you […]